What is "NORMAL"?

Everyone talks about the "new normal" after you lose a child. I don't believe "normal" will ever return to my house after my 18 year old son, Max, was killed in a car crash on 8/6/10. "Normal Died With Max", and this blog is about the life I have without him.

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Where The Wheels of Faith Meet The Road of Reality

Originally posted as a facebook note on 8/21/10 - Those who know me well know that before Max died, I was going through a very dry season with God.  I had become very jaded with my friendships, being burned too many times, unwilling to trust what my heart knew was real and what wasn't.  I have struggled for many months to find the closeness that I once had with God.  The week of the accident, I had met with one of my girlfriends and expressed a lot of my frustration with these emotions.

And then Max died suddenly, and I was thrust into an immediate crisis.  Here is where faith collides with reality - do I really believe what I believe?  Or do I KNOW it to be fact?  For me, there was really no question.  I KNEW what I know to be true, that faith is NOT something unseen and intangible.  It is REAL, it can be grasped and held on to and stood on!

I guess this is another promise fulfilled in Romans 8:28.  God used this horrendous event in my life to show me to immediately drop the weight of cynicism that I had been carrying needlessly for so long.  Not only is HE real, but the friends He has surrounded me with are real as well.  I sat on the lawn at the church tonight and just watched the village of people that He placed me in for this season, and I was so unbelievably GRATEFUL.   I love you all so much and am so completely coninviced that ours is a faith that we can trust to hold us when we have no strength left ourselves.

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